We had some really really good talks in church on Sunday. The month's theme has been on 'loving your spouse'. Quite February appropriate. The messages this week were well thought out and prepared, and I've been thinking a lot since then. Everyone has expectations when it comes to marriage. Some of those expectations are ridiculously unattainable and wishful ideals which leave people feeling unfulfilled and thinking that every other marriage is better than theirs. There really is no such thing as a fairy tale 'happily ever after'. And come on, did you really wanna marry Prince Charming? He's probably never worked a day in his life. Life is wonderful after marriage, but you have to make it that way. If you just expect that life is going to be easier in every way just because you've found and married your other half, you should also expect a rude awakening. We've had a lot of good messages in church this month, and a lot of wives praising husbands f...